What happens when we cross over and why can’t a medium guarantee that spirits will come through in a reading?

"Because when we cross to the other side and become spirit two things can happen:

We can become very confused and disoriented at first because while alive we had a preconceived idea of heaven since society molds us from early on to believe that when we cross over we either go to heaven or hell but in reality there is no such!.

 

Heaven or hell is on earth only! As human, we're given choices and free will, so, depending on the choices that we make we either going to experience heaven or hell! While most of us carry an emotional unresolved baggage/business from childhood (ie. parents get divorced, emotional or physical abuse, addiction, abandonment, etc...) into adulthood we have two choices we can either become bitter or let the emotional baggage/unfinished business go Or we can chose to forgive, love unconditionally  and be generous. That's in a nut shell heaven or hell on earth. 

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We can experience grief the same way as our loved ones who are left behind because when we cross over and become spirit we no longer have a body BUT we take our emotions, personality and learned behavior with us so spirit can experience: grief or be in denial of no longer be alive with a body and accept to be a spirit.

 

                                                       So what's next?

When we cross over. we're welcomed by spirit gatekeepers who are responsible to guide us (it's a like a welcome committee and a reception center). Their responsibility if to help new comers to accept that they are dead and to help them transition with the idea of becoming spirit. Gatekeepers are also responsible to assess our transition and only once we have accepted to we no longer alive and "back home" as spirit this is when we're finally allowed to come through to our loved ones through mediums but also know that spirits have a choice to come through to their loved ones or not too. Sometimes a spirit can not come through because of guilt ot they have to go through spirit therapy,